36-year-old left the U.S. for China—now pays $1,000 rent and $100 for
As a kid, I moved around a lot. I was born in California, but I’ve lived in Arizona, Colorado, North Carolina, Virginia, Montana and Oklahoma. I never had the chance to call anywhere “home” for too long. So if you’d told me back then that I’d end up in China, I would’ve laughed.
I visited China for the first time in 2016. I was 27 years old and got a job as an English teacher in Shenzhen, a fast-growing tech hub just across the border from Hong Kong. I sold my car and used the money to buy a plane ticket from North Carolina. I had never been outside the U.S. before.
Over the next four years, living in Asia gave me the chance to travel to places like Cambodia and Thailand. I loved traveling because it was a profound chance to test my courage and resilience, find meaning and expand my worldview.
Today, I live in Shenzhen with my wife and our two kids. Here’s why it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
1. I met my wife and started a family
My wife was born in Tahiti and both her parents are from China. When we met, she was working here as a French teacher.
When the pandemic hit, we’d been living in China for three years and were on vacation in the U.S. With the borders closed, my wife and I decided to relocate to Tahiti to be closer to her parents.
Five years later, we had two kids under five. There were parts of our life in Tahiti that we liked, but something was missing. China still felt like our true home and we returned to Shenzhen in June 2025.
My kids playing in Shenzhen Talent Park.
Photo: Bradley Krae
I still feel so grateful for that first teaching job. Landing it was something of an accident, but without it, I wouldn’t have my family and the life I have now.
2. I spend less money than I would in the U.S.
After we got back to Shenzhen in 2025, I continued my career as an English teacher, making around $4,000 a month.
We rent a three-bedroom apartment for around $1,000 a month. Internet costs about $29, and electricity averages $100.
We spend roughly $100 a month on groceries for our family of four. When we eat out, it’s rare to spend more than $10 total. We also pay about $90 a month for healthcare.
My wife and I enjoying an evening out.
Photo: Bradley Krae
All told, I’m paying about a fourth of the cost of what I used to pay for my monthly expenses when I lived in the U.S. — and that was when I was living by myself.
3. I feel like I’m living in the future
To me, Shenzhen is like if Silicon Valley and New York City had a baby in China. It is a bustling tech capital with surprises on every corner.
One of the many surprises you can find walking around Shenzhen.
Photo: Bradley Krae
Flying drones deliver food in 15 minutes or less and autonomous taxis drive on streets awash with sparkling neon lights. There is a real cyberpunk energy here.
Shenzhen is one of the most vibrant places I’ve ever called home.
Photo: CNBC Make It
Public transportation is also great. The…
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